How To Attract What You Want In Life

How To Attract What You Want In Life

Often we hear the words Manifestation and Law of Attraction. What do these really mean in terms of attracting what we want into our lives?

The reality is, life is truly what YOU make it. The things you view, surround yourself with, listen to, and educate yourself with all contribute to the type of life that you lead.

Attracting the life you want relies on the habits and intentions you are willing to live with. 

Let’s say you shape your life around no purpose. You have a negative view on the world and decide to not implement daily habits for a positive goal. Reality is, you’d quickly be subject to limiting beliefs, self-doubt and absolutely no growth. Each day would pass you by and you’d ultimately live a life of regret. 

Now, on the other hand - let’s say you want to create a positive, enriching life that directs you towards a purpose. As a result, you cultivate personal daily habits that help attract positivity and light into your life which ultimately, leads you directly towards your life goals and success.

The key to attracting the life that you want is to practice mindfulness and positivity every single day. Purposely shaping your life around what you want will result in you getting what you want.

Let me take you through how to attract the things you want most into your life :

  1. Identify what it is that you want

First and foremost, you need to decide what you are working so hard for. This means recognising what your purpose is. Think about yourself 5 years from now. Are you happy? What is going on in your life that makes you so happy? What career do you have or what do you look like? Break it all down so that you can clearly create a vision. 

In order to maintain motivation, you have to inspire yourself. To invoke inspiration, it’s important to clearly lay out what it is that you want out of your life.


2. Make a plan

Creating a daily routine is the backbone of attracting the life that you want. Map out your perfect day. To create a vision that you want and how you move throughout life holds so much power. Not only will you know what you’re doing and will keep you on track and productive, but it will also help with pulling positivity into your life. 

Things happen in life. It is undeniable and unavoidable. But to have a basis that you can always fall back to - a ritual - can give you the structure and mindfulness that you need.


3. Intentionally being Mindful 

Taking a moment every day to check in with your mind is essential to living the life that you want. 

This could be through journaling, mediation, or physically moving your body. Whatever you need to do to take a moment to yourself.

The trick is to remind yourself about your goal of today. Ask yourself what kind of life that you intend on living that day. What motivates you? Inspires you? What could you do today in order to make your life worth living? 

It’s all about shaping each day around positivity and your goals. This will in turn bring what you want forth and reward you. 


4. The Power of Affirmations

Affirmations are so powerful when talking about pulling what you want into your life. Affirmation means the power of affirming something. Repeating a notion that it becomes your reality. 

A commonality between all these points is that it’s all about the mind. You can control what your mind believes. 

“The mind does not know the difference between an internal thought and an external reality” - Hitomi Mochizuki

If you can encourage and support your mind by repeating positive, enlightening affirmations - you will be able to receive the energy that you are putting out. 

Some positive affirmations to try :

  • I am ready to receive positive rewards from the universe
  • I have all the tools I need to succeed
  • I am the author of my story

These are a few powerful affirmations to help you on your journey to attracting what you want. Create some of your own for every week. Repeat them and let the energy in the words fill you body up from your feet up to your head. Believe in the words and let them believe in you.


Gratitude is key

Realisation of the gifts and rewards you have received is so important. Once you implement these strategies, positivity and your goals in life will flood you. That being said, it’s important to take a moment to revel in what has surrounded you. Look around and fully take in how much your life has transformed. 

No win is too big, just as, no win is too small. The fact that you got up and made your bed this morning. How about, you make yourself and your partner a healthy meal. Congratulate yourself on the wins of your day. 

I love giving thanks to the fact that I have a roof over my head. Food in the fridge. Loved ones who love me back in return. These are things you need to take a moment to really soak in and feel. It’s too easy to get lost in what we don’t have that we forget all that we do. 

Your life is full of abundance as it is - right now. As you move along your journey, you will only collect more to be thankful for. Do not be ungrateful for these small treasures. 

Take a moment every day, and say thank you. This will only allow the space for more to come into your life and you will be ready with open arms, when they do.

Things to remember

  • In order to fully receive what you want out of your life - you have to decide, implement positive habits, rituals, and finally reward yourself.


  • It’s all about knowing what you want and making small changes to your life in order to obtain it. 


  • Reaffirming to yourself and positive encouragement allows for you and the universe to hear your requests. 


  • Allow yourself to be rewarded and note when it comes into your life.

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